Please, leave your crystal ball aside!

Hi! Are you one of those people who always know what is going to happen to people around you? Who always know perfectly that people are going to fail, fall or suffer a lot from the biggest pain in life? Let me ask you: have you ever won the lottery or something like that? No? […]

Dear kids…

No, I don’t have kids (yet), but when I have them, this one might be one of my speechs to them. I know, maybe they will listen or maybe not, but you don’t always do things for people to obey. You just do them. And let people decide. “Hi, it’s me, mom. Yes, I’m here […]

Excuse me! Your feelings are not my responsibility…

I know, I know. You’ve heard it many times. And if you are half the “good-girl” I am, it might even have made you feel guilty. It has many shapes. For some people, it’s just “look at what you made me do”. Others just tell you: “you make me feel…”, or something like that. And […]

The power of a parenthesis

Life is not as they tell you in the success stories. They hide the most important part: the bad moments/days/weeks/months/years… Because, let’s face it: we all had/are having/will have one (or some) of them. Not many people want to tell those stories. Some people do it when they are long gone. Some people will never […]

The price you are paying… for living other people’s labels

Sometimes it starts as an innocent comment: “you are a good girl”. And then ‘boom!’: your destiny is defined by those words. Life is a beautiful experience (or it should be). It should be a collection of awesome moments, shared with awesome people, feeling yourself, and feeling other poeple appreciating your presence and company. But sometimes, […]

How to Live Your Life On Your Own Terms

I think that I’ve got it. I live on my own terms. No, I’m not rich (yet), and yes, there are things in my life that I would like to change. But that’s not what I’m talking about. I’m talking about being you. I’m talking about taking your own decisions. I’m talking about not taking decisions […]